This is why you should choose how you get interrupted
Datum: 2026-02-12 08:26
Distractions and interruptions when you least need them seem to concern many, judging by what participants in my lectures and courses testify to. I have previously highlighted research on how often we get interrupted and how it affects our well-being and job satisfaction. A German study nuances the picture and shows that factors other than frequency also determine how draining interruptions can be. Who asks if you have “a second”, what the interruption results in, and in what form it comes also affects it to varying degrees.
They cause stress and they don’t
In the study, it was found that the two most stressful forms were:
- Phone calls
- Emails
The two that, on the other hand, were significantly less stressful were:
- Instant messaging (chat)
- Face-to-face (F2F), i.e., a colleague stopping by or looking in on another
Without pressure, it’s easier
The researchers hypothesize that while a chat message is often informally formulated, short, and does not require much effort, an email is often more formal and requires more effort to respond to. They also argue that a face-to-face conversation provides more interpersonal interaction than a phone call and is, therefore, easier to perceive as valuable and enjoyable than an unwelcome interruption.
The choice is yours
Those who need to work focused at times and also enjoy being part of a team, therefore, have something to gain by consciously choosing their preferred mode of communication — not just optimizing the number of interruptions they receive on a regular day.
Do this
Think about how you contact, ask questions of, or ask for help from your colleagues and what response you usually get. If your question seems to stress them out more often than you would like, try contacting them via chat or face-to-face instead (or ask them in which format they themselves prefer to receive questions).
Also, reflect on how you experience being interrupted in different formats. Consider if you would prefer one format over another. Let your colleagues know so they can choose the most advantageous way to contact you — for both them and you.
Choosing the right format improves collaboration
If you consciously choose the format for your and others’ “interruptions”, you will experience them as less stressful and tiring. Your collaboration with your colleagues is likely to benefit, because what if you can answer questions more often with the right chosen format without affecting your tasks and well-being?
How do you do it?
How do you prefer to receive help questions from your colleagues? I would love to hear how you and other readers experience it, so get in touch with me and tell me.
(Want to learn from more studies? Also check out my post “Get interrupted without minding”.)
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