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04 Nov

Give yourself small, small blocks of personal time


Datum: 2025-11-04 08:47
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One way to make more time for the tasks you do not auto­mat­i­cal­ly have time for is to reserve time for them in your cal­en­dar. You sim­ply book a meet­ing with your­self to work on the things you real­ly want to get done that you nev­er seem to have time for.


For you who pre­fer lis­ten­ing to read­ing, this post is also avail­able as an episode of the ““Done!”” pod­cast:


If it is time-depen­dent, it should be entered into the calendar

This is com­plete­ly in line with my rule of thumb that says that any­thing time-depen­dent should be put in the cal­en­dar. If some­thing is to be done at a spe­cif­ic time, it should be in the cal­en­dar. If it is to be done at some point dur­ing a cer­tain day, but it does not mat­ter when dur­ing the day, it is bet­ter to put it on the to-do list instead, with that par­tic­u­lar day as the due date. Then you can be more flex­i­ble dur­ing the day with what you do and when. In this case, when you need to decide on a time on a cer­tain day that you are work­ing on a spe­cif­ic task in order to make time for it at all, you make the task time-depen­dent — and it belongs in the calendar.

But, if you do, you have to do that par­tic­u­lar task at the sched­uled time.

Time by your­self is too often neglected

I meet many clients one-on-one with­in the frame­work of my per­son­al struc­ture train­ing ser­vice. Strik­ing­ly often, get­ting time for some­thing oth­er than meet­ings becomes the most top­i­cal theme in such conversations.

It turns out that many pri­or­i­tize a new meet­ing that pops up over the time set aside to just work alone on some­thing impor­tant. Even if the per­son who needs more time for cer­tain tasks has decid­ed not to remove these book­ings of alone-time but instead move them to anoth­er time with­in the same week, every­thing can fall apart when there is no free space lat­er in the week to move to. The rea­son is often that the block of free time is large and the gaps between meet­ings are small — albeit many in number.

Sev­er­al small ones instead of a few large ones

If you often have to can­cel your own time despite hav­ing booked it, divide it into small­er por­tions so that you can more eas­i­ly find anoth­er place for it if nec­es­sary. Instead of book­ing a block of two hours on Wednes­day morn­ings, book four half hours togeth­er at the same time. If you have to rearrange your cal­en­dar because a very impor­tant meet­ing comes up, you might be able to find three free half hours every now and then on Thurs­day and Fri­day, and maybe even half an hour on Tues­day. You get your own time, just not where it was ini­tial­ly booked.

Here’s what to do

If you rec­og­nize that you often need to remove booked per­son­al time, try divid­ing it into small­er parts.

If this sounds rea­son­able to you, look through your cal­en­dar and divide the alone-time book­ings that are there today into small­er slots. You can keep the total time, but make small­er por­tions of it. You can leave them togeth­er. Only spread them out if and when you need to.

Of course, do not over­do it and split the book­ing into such small frag­ments that it is hard­ly worth start­ing on the task you had in mind, but sure­ly it can be split into small­er parts than it is today.

More per­son­al time than you would oth­er­wise have

If you pre-divide” your own book­ings when you make them in the first place, you will be able to move them around more eas­i­ly if and when you need to. You are more like­ly to keep the time you want and get more of the impor­tant, yet non-urgent, tasks done in a more time­ly man­ner. In addi­tion, you can more eas­i­ly make your­self avail­able for emer­gency appoint­ments when it real­ly matters.

How do you do it?

What tricks do you have to main­tain your sched­uled per­son­al time? Write and tell me!

(Does it some­times feel hard to piece your work­week togeth­er? Try to com­pose your ide­al week!)


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